Everyone wants to find the right person for them. Sometimes, however, we get side tracked by who we think is the right person that we might miss the one who really is right for us. In this post, I am sharing a few ways that you can know if you’ve found the right guy for you.
1. You Feel Safe Around Him
When you’re with the right person, you will always feel safe around them. Things will be comfortable, and you can be relaxed. You won’t feel like you’re always trying to impress them because you know that they love you no matter what -even if you have no makeup on and you haven’t brushed your hair in a week.
2. Your friends and family like him
Personally, I think that way too many people don’t realize how important it is for your family and friends to like the person you are with. In a healthy relationship, you should all make an effort to like each others friends and family and actually build a relationship with them instead of being stand off-ish. I’m not saying that everyone is going to become best friends, but I do think that you should all at least be friendly with each other!
If you’re in a relationship and your friends and family are hesitant about the person you are dating, I would suggest that you take a step back, look around, and ask why they feel that way. Your love goggles may be blinding you!
3. He is happy to do things for you
In a healthy relationship, both of you will happily do extra things for each other out of love. You won’t complain about it because you enjoy making each other happy. In some ways, you both take care of each other. These can be simple things like picking you up and taking you to breakfast or even big things like driving across the country to come visit you. No matter what the action is, the important thing is that there are actions (not just words) that show you how much you are cared for.
4. You don’t have to worry about your relationship
When you’re in the right relationship, there’s no need to worry about being cheated on or getting treated wrong. You don’t have to think about the person leaving because you know they wouldn’t. Even if things get hard, you know that you guys will work through it together. I know that no relationship is perfect, but, if it’s the right person, things will just be so much easier. Just remember to always communicate with each other if there is something bugging you!
5. He makes you a priority
In the right relationship, you will be a priority in each other’s lives. If you need him there, he will come quickly. You know that both of you would go out of your way for each other. You always know how important you are to each other. This doesn’t mean that you guys completely drop your friends, though. Even though you guys are a priority for each other, remember to make time for the other people in your lives! This will keep all of the relationships in your lives healthy.
I hope this post gives you a few ideas on how to know if you’ve found the right guy for you! If you have, I am so happy for you! If not, don’t lose hope! The perfect guy for you is out there somewhere. You just have to be patient enough to wait for him!
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